Tuesday, July 31, 2012

TMI Tuesday: July 31, 2012 - The Comfort and Thrill of Sex

Presenting this week's TMI Tuesday:

1. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)?
a. I love it.
b. I enjoy it.
c. I’m ok with it.
d. I don’t really enjoy it.
e. I don’t enjoy it at all.

f. I have never given anal sex.
g. I have never given anal sex, but would like to start.

b. I enjoy it, but rarely get the opportunity to give anal sex in any form.
2. How do you feel about receiving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)?
a. I love it.
b. I enjoy it.
c. I’m ok with it.
d. I don’t enjoy it at all.
e. I have never received anal sex.
f. I have never received anal sex, but would like to start.

a. I love it! I average around twice a day, every day, spending time working my asshole with dildos. That's an average, mind you. I don't really take it in the ass everyday, even though I'd love to.
3. How do you feel about getting undressed in front of a new lover, for the first time, as he/she watches you?
a. It’s a turn on for me.
b. It turns me on a little bit.
c. I like it, but only because it gets him/her going.
d. It does nothing for me.
e. I don’t like doing it because I am shy.
f. I don’t like doing it because I think it’s immoral/improper.

a. It's a turn on for me, as long as it's not awkward or controlled.
4. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?
a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).
b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).
c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).
d. Yes, on a few occasions (10-39% of the time).
e. Yes, but only on special occasions (1-9% of the time).
f. Never, not even when I am really turned on.

a. Yes, each time I have sex. Most of the time, though, the noises come out as dirty talk.
5. Do you talk to your partner in a sexually explicit way?
a. Talking dirty is one of our favorite activities.
b. Occasionally, I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease.
c. I talk dirty with my partner, but it feels awkward.
d. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.
e. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but she/he isn’t into it.
f. I don’t talk in such a way because I think it is inappropriate.
g. I don’t talk in such a way because I can’t bring myself to do it.

a. Talking dirty us definitely one of our favorite, no, integral part of our activities.
6. What kind of animal do you most sound like when building to a climax?
a. quiet little mouse
b. low moaning wolf
c. screeching beluga whale

b. low moaning wolf? I don't actually know as I've never really paid attention. If I had to more accurately describe my noises, it'd be closer to someone with Tourette's.
Bonus: Which do you prefer comfort sex or thrill-seeking sex? Why?
I like both but tend toward thrill-seeking as evidenced by my open marriage,  rampant kink play, and my wife's professional status as a legal prostitute.
Comfort seekers value deep intimacy, quiet engagement and trust over time of familiar relationships. For them sex is best as a safe, loving nurturing space.*
Thrill seekers value wild energy, adventure and novelty; they are willing to try open relationships, testing themselves outside average sexual practices. These folks crave a place to push the boundaries of new experiences.*
*Adapted from Susan Mernit’s blog 

4 comments:

  1. Great answers! Dirty talk is incredibly important to us as well, and now that you mention it we frequently segue from moaning and other sounds to dirty talk (or vice versa). Hadn't considered that.

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  2. Thanks, J&J. Our sounds and dirty talk are definitely determined by the type of orgasm that's building.

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  3. 2. I'd love to watch you take it in the ass everyday. I think I'd like to peg you too.

    3. Will you do a strip-tease for me? ;-)

    4. I have NEVER knows a man that did not express himself while fucking. Now if doing other sexy stuff, men seem less vocal/noisy.

    6. buwhahahaha...OMG too too funny!

    Loved your TMI Tuesday,
    -H

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